Comedian Sofie Hagen has not had sex in 3,000 days (and counting). And it turns out, she’s not the only one.

In attempting to find out why we’re not having the sex we want, Sofie asks the questions:can we blame a lacking sex education? Is it all just sexual trauma? Where’s the radical sexual liberation we were promised? What are we going to do about this? Should she have slept with that guy in that bush that one time? How do you overcome being a 35 year-old virgin (when it comes to queer sex, that is)? How do the socially awkward and the neurodiverse have sex?

In Will I Ever Have Sex Again?, Sofie Hagen explores the quirks and difficulties of being ‘involuntary celibate’ (but one of the feminist, progressive ones) through introspection and conversations w ith experts, therapists, sex workers, porn stars, comedians and public figures.